A doubt that I don't have a conclusion yet

Recently I've been thinking... 對於別人所說的話 到底該用什麼樣的態度去面對. Is everything really true, or just from this person's perspective? 到底應該要怎麼樣才能不受到別人所說的話而影響自己的心情? I wonder if what really happened matters. I'm thinking adjusting our minds are more important. But how? 相信自己所相信的? 是否有自欺欺人的成份在? Someone has told me "People don't remember what you tell them, but they remember how you make them feel." 以同樣的道理來說 是否People don't remember what they saw, but they remember how it makes them feel? 這就是Interpretation and story.

So I came up with a new quote "Fight your mind, not others." 

Yet, still no conclusion.

I will make it happen

The secret of me being able to handle everything myself is autohypnosis. Like all others, I do panic, I do have doubts. The difference I'm making here is the thoughts I try to have when I'm frustrated. I keep telling myself "I will make it happen. I will make it happen." Meanwhile most of the people would think "So dead.. I can't make it." Why am I always so sure about I can make things happen? I learned this at EA, lots of tasks were given and expected to be finished in a short amount of time. I don't have time to think about whether this can be done, I just do it because this has to be done on time and it will be done. And that is always the case.